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the verdict

by MJD-S
Talked to Dad this morning, unfortunately the cancer in his right lung is malignant and inoperable as it is too close to his pulmonary artery. He starts chemotherapy treatment next week. He has been told that he has about a year to live. Speaking to him though he seems very positive. He has made a "recovery plan" including meditation, a healthier diet and focusing on healing. Whether this will have an impact on his condition or not - who knows? Even mentally at least he will feel like he's doing something to fight it, and hopefully it will make him feel better. Of course there are many issues and thoughts running through my mind right now. How much time? Can he beat this thing? Will he ever hold his grandkids? How will I be able to tell him how things turn out for me if he's not there? Who will always be just a phone call away to cheer me up with a lousy joke? I don't know why but I always assumed my parents would always be there, I never have had to think about losing one before this. Especially not at such a young age - he's only 54. I guess all I can do is try to be positive and help him with his recovery plan. Get J-Mum and J-Auntie onto finding out some ye olde Japanese health treatments. Ask the j-ster for some reiki advice. And leave my sadness for later.


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  • Oh MJ - what can one say at this news?  I am thinking of you and your family!!  Send lots of good healing vibes as well as soy products and dried eel.  Massage and reiki would be an ideal therapuetic companion to any drug therapy. Call me if you need anything.

    GG
    04/01/23 05:17 PM
  • Hey babe - well we are not really sure what to say to each other at the moment - we are all trying to be positive I guess - just knowing I have such an amazing support group here and at home helps. Thanks.

    MJ
    04/01/23 05:29 PM
  • ......
    I’ve been through this. If in doubt, on a sleepless night, don’t hesitate to email me, if you think it could help.

    Meenoo
    04/01/23 06:07 PM
  • Oh, honey. I’m so sorry. I’m here for you 24/7. Just call when you need to talk; if the trains are running, I’ll come down for tea and hugs.

    kristen
    04/01/23 09:00 PM
  • thanks guys

    MJ
    04/01/23 11:49 PM
  • Big hugs and lots of shoulders and helping hands, whenever u need them XOXOXOXOXOXOXOX

    j-ster
    04/01/24 04:49 PM
  • Speechless with sorrow for you and your loved ones. But we hope that in sharing your sorrow, we would help make it more bearable. So if you ever run out of hugs or friends to call upon(which you wont), there’s always more here.  Much much love and affection from your fan(s). 

    KC
    04/01/25 05:40 PM
  • I’ve been reading your blog for a while as a lurker and I realise that I’m just a stranger to you, but I just wanted to say that I’m so so sorry. :( I wish you and your dad lots of luck.

    seraph
    04/01/26 07:30 AM
  • I’m really sorry to hear about this news which must be scary for you, but it is quite moving to know that he is standing up to this, refusing to let it take him over. I am in the habit these days of praying at shrines whenever I can, so I said a few words for your father on Sunday and Monday.

    nils
    04/01/28 01:12 AM
  • Saaaa.
    It must feel so strange to so far away from him now. You might want to free up your schedule in the next months to spent some time with him. I wish I did that when lost my father a few years ago while on my 15th year here in Japan. Since it was a ‘surprise’, even my wife comments that, “it’s not like he’s even gone; we’re just AWAY.”
    Make time.

    taro
    04/01/28 02:33 PM
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